[愛情文章] 女人的眼淚到底代表什麼

聽過好多朋友講「我真係好驚女仔喊,唔好對住我喊呀」

或者有D人會覺得,呢樣係女人獨有既武器

前幾日上critical thinking學過,
"Emotions are involuntary.
If we can choose our emotions,why do we not
choose to be happy all the time?
And why would anyone ever choose to be sad?"

都聽過一D女性朋友話
「夜晚諗諗下件事D眼淚就不其然咁流出黎,你估我真係好想喊...?」

眼淚,唔係話你想佢流出黎就流到
有時係可以一整日都諗住一件你覺得好SAD既事
但半滴眼淚都冇流出黎

站在女性既立場,我覺得,
女人喊,好多時係因為佢見到件事已經去到一個絕望既地步,
而喊,係唯一既選擇,亦係唯一可以做既事
佢喊,係因為佢好想解決件事,但佢解決唔到
佢喊,係因為佢仲非常在意
佢喊,係因為佢唔捨得,佢留戀
佢喊,係因為佢已經心碎左好多次,碎到無可再碎落去既地步

佢喊,絕對唔會係因為想人地可憐佢先咁做

當有日佢唔再喊,
其實都代表左,佢已經唔再在乎果件令佢唔開心左咁耐既事

「講真,我唔想再咁唔開心,唔想再日日都諗住果樣野,放棄既會令我好過D」

雖然,放棄,唔再理,係一個消極既做法,但...仲有其他更好既辦法嗎?